Well, here is the announcement that I (and many of you), have been waiting for. . .
What does this mean for me?
I’m excited. I honestly am. While today marks the end of one era for me, it also signals the beginning of some really exciting things. For the last few weeks, I’ve been in limbo. During that time, I’ve spent quite a bit of time thinking about where I’ve been, where I’m at, and where I’m going. I particularly excited to be taking you on this journey with me. It should be fun.
Purpose Discovered
I want to tell you a little bit about where I’ve been. A story that I don’t think I’ve told many people, or that I haven’t told fully to anyone. . .
When I started RealEstateZebra.com, it had a lot to do with where I was in my life. 2006 was a tough year for me. In 2005, I was diagnosed with Ulcerative Colitis. I spent much of 2004 and 2005 being quite ill. In fact, when Kari and I were married in 2004, I was at one of my lowest weights, and a flare-up basically stole our entire honeymoon. In 2006, we made the decision to have my colon removed. It was a tough decision, but it was the only way I would be cured.
So, I went to the Mayo Clinic with Kari and my Mom in March of 2006 for the first of two surgeries. It was the most difficult experience I have ever had to endure. It was also the moment of one of my biggest mistakes.
If you look back at the archives of this site, you will notice that they don’t begin until May of 2006. That wasn’t because there were no blog posts prior to that time, because there were. I just erased them. That was a major mistake.
I did it because I didn’t want people to know what was going on. I did it because I didn’t want to share with people what I was going through. I didn’t think anyone would care. I didn’t think it was worth it. It is a mistake that I regret very much to this very day. In fact, it is really the only regret I can remember in my entire life.
If I had it to do over again, I would have blogged as much as I could have. I would have blogged from the hospital, if I could have. I definitely would have blogged during the two months I spent gingerly moving between my bed and my couch as I recovered.
I know that sharing that experience would have helped me. I know that it would have helped my family. I know that it would have helped a lot of other people.
After the surgery and recovery, blogging was just what I needed. It was something to keep me occupied. It was something to keep me going. I needed my blog every day just as much as my blog needed me.
That was was the place I was in when I had the second of the two surgeries in July of 2006. In fact, you can read what I wrote the day before we returned to the Mayo Clinic. Once again, I didn’t tell anyone what was going on. I had made the mistake once, then I managed to make it again.
After I came back home and started blogging again, recovering from the surgery gave me a chance to think about where I was and what I was doing. I decided that the surgery and recovery marked a major change in my life. I decided that I needed to somehow express this change. Since I wasn’t blogging about the surgery experience itself, the only thing I could change was what I was already expressing.
It was out of this desire for change that I started RealEstateZebra.com. Sure, the whole zebra motif was a great idea that my wife had to blend my officiating and real estate, but the reality was that it was really much deeper than that. It was about change.
When I started that site, I swore two things to myself: I swore that I would do whatever I could to use my voice to make a positive change in the real estate industry; and I swore that I would be more open and honest. I wasn’t going to make the mistake of not sharing something that could be meaningful to others, just because it might be uncomfortable to me.
Sure, I might not have said those things in exactly that way when I wrote my first post explaining the change, but when I read that post today, I can definitely feel it between the lines.
Back then, a difficult event in my life helped me discover blogging and gave me purpose that I didn’t have before. I was given exactly what I needed, even though I had no idea I was looking for it.
Purpose Renewed
Fast forward five years, hundreds of blog posts and hundreds of new relationships, and I’m feeling exactly the same way I did back then, only different.
A very difficult time in my life has shown me that keeping the two promises that I made five years ago were completely worth it. This very difficult time has confirmed not the worst opinions I have about human nature, but rather the best. It has shown me that people are, at their core, filled with love. People are looking for ways and places to pour out that love, and given the opportunity, will share their love freely and extensively. Sure, there are occasional exceptions, but those exceptions are only temporary and can always be overcome. In the end, love wins.
Just like I was five years ago, I am striking out in a new direction. Or, more accurately, I am continuing in the same direction, but with greater vigor and confidence.
I firmly believe that God knows what is best, and that He is in control, and that He loves me.
Because of this unending love, He sometimes has to redirect us so that we may follow the path He has laid out for us. Many times, following the path means that we must first be humbled. Following the path means that we sometimes must have our noses rubbed in its dirt.
I also believe that he uses people in our lives as guides to keep us on the path. We have only to listen to them and we can hear His voice, giving us the directions. I believe that He did exactly that for me 5 years ago, and He is doing it again for me now.
That is why I have a renewed confidence in my purpose and the path. I can see it more clearly now than ever before. I can’t see all the way to the end, but I know He is walking it with me, which gives me great comfort and confidence.
That comfort and confidence is the main reason why I have chosen to move here to DanielRothamel.com, and why I have chosen “drothamel” as my username on the various social networks. It is more than just my name, it is more than just a brand, it is the brand that God gave me.
Sure, things may look different now. The site has changed, my usernames have changed, but the path remains the same.
I want to take you on the journey with me. I hope you’ll come along.

